Back in July there was a push to do some newsletters by Christian our business manager. I wrote up two newsletters as a proposal for Charisma Arts. I still think it is a good idea to do a bi monthly or monthly newsletter. Hey David D can't be completely wrong with his marketing success. However for whatever reason the newsletter idea never got brought into fruition. As promised if they weren't going to be in your inbox they'd be posted here. This is the first in a long series of many newsletters, well ok two. So one more after this. Look for it later this week or early next week. If you find this helpful and want more of it email charisma arts at info@charismaarts.com and tell them you'd love more newsletters and most importantly it would make you want to take a bootcamp, do a phone consult, or buy the ebook! Hey everything is about marketing. I just happen to think the best marketing is good content.
So enjoy!
Welcome to the very first Charisma Arts newsletter!!!
Great things are happening here at Charisma Arts. By the time you read this Wayne and Johnny will be internationally known in the world of social interaction. Seduction School, a reality tv show, will have aired in the UK and is probably filtering onto the internet for download as we speak. Hopefully I’ll get to see it soon!
There have been a lot of great new trainers coming on board as of late. These guys are AMAZING! Seeing Judson get the number of a bartender that every guy in the bar had already tried for was a work of art! Matt and Jayson have been on quite some time now, and as soon as we get them to stop hiding from the camera we’ll have their bios up soon. Many of you will recognize Matt’s skill as being somewhat familiar, he’s Johnny’s older brother. Definitely not to be overshadowed though, he is one of our smoothest instructors. Jayson the eternal goofball, has a fun flirty style that disarms every woman he meets. I swear that guy can talk any woman on the planet into sending him naughty texts and pics on his phone. Our international trainers include Eric in Canada, and Locky in the UK. Locky that little devil I have yet to meet, but his stories of unbuttoning a girls shirt right in the bar because he is so un-intimidating are now legendary. Eric our man in the great white north I am flying to hang out with as we speak. I’ll report back what crazy hijinks we get into in the wonderful city of Montreal.
Each newsletter we are going to answer your questions and give you some fun tips, Q&A, anecdotes, stories, and even exercises. We know you don’t want any spam! So it’s all content coming at you. This is Dan (SocialHitchHiker) coming at you from 25,000 feet trying to outrun jetlag.
Q & A
I seem to talk to a lot of women but I never seem to build attraction, any tips?
Attraction is built when you self confidently show who you are and are genuinely interested in who she is. If you are trying to do something to build attraction it will almost always fail. Disqualification, rewarding, and making her interesting, are among your best tools to allow attraction to grow. Remember it is already there. She is attracted to you the moment you walk up; she just doesn’t know it yet.
So I feel phony when I give rewards like “you’re a really great conversationalist”.
Then don’t use that particular reward. Be genuine. Make sure whatever reward you give her it is commensurate to the effort she gave you as well as being genuine. If she says she likes burritos, and you say you are so impressed by her great choice of cuisine, you’re done. Try rewarding on personality traits either explicit or implied. She says she tells you she is a nurse and loves helping people try; “I like that, you have a really big heart. I don’t know if I would ever have courage to do that. Honestly I faint when I see some blood from a paper-cut.” If you are having trouble rewarding, when she tells you something interesting try saying “I like that.” Then telling her why.
I just can’t seem to escalate! Help me!
As one of our clients said “Sexy is the $1600 word”. Tell her how something unique about her is really sexy. Then tell her “Stop it, you’re turning me on.” Continue that game whenever she does something or tells you something unique. “I told you to stop that, I mean we are surrounded by people, you really have to stop turning me on.” Just remember to never use these SOI’s to seek feedback from her. Tell her a SOI then let it go and move on, don’t wait for her reaction. Positive, neutral, or negative, move on to more flirting or more rapport. The key is once you SOI, interpret everything she does (within reason) as sexual. Throwing in some sexual barriers and push pull is also really helpful at this point. Not sure how to do that? Come to a boot-camp or read Wayne’s E-book, it will be the best investment you have ever made in changing your life.
Thanks for reading this first edition of the Charisma Arts newsletter. Here is an exercise for you to try until we hit you up with our next installment.
Exercise: Man Hug a Stranger
Object: Create a committed vibe
Go up to a complete stranger somewhere and with the vibe like you have known them for years and have just run into them. Extend your hand and give an interlocking hand shake (the manly handshake where you basically grab each others thumb and palm) and pull them in while you reach around and pat them on the back with your free hand. Say something like “Hey, good to see you! [man hug now]” When they say something about not knowing you, just say you must have been mistaken and introduce yourself. See how long you can keep talking to them.
Charismatically yours,
Dan (Social HitchHiker)
Are you looking to make more progress? Our resources are at your fingertips. http://www.charismaarts.com has lots of different tools for you to become an incredibly charismatic individual. Download our E-Book and see just how simple conversation can turn from platonic to personal to sexual. Still can’t seem to integrate some of the tools we teach? Try a phone consultation! What a great way to get solid advice personalized to your situation and personality. For those of you ready to have your life completely altered, say goodbye to free evenings and sleep. Our boot-camp will make you so charming, women will be clamoring for your attention and keeping you up all night hogging all the covers. Don’t say I didn’t warn you!
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5 comments:
i personally would like to hear from more instructors in the upcoming newsletters. itd be interesting to hear their own personal take on meeting and connecting with women, what mindset they have, some of their own personal little ways of going about things.
judson gave me great advice when i met him, and just watching him talk to people is so frickin inspiring. i want to be just like him when i grow up. plus, i hardly know any of the other instructors. i feel that learning more from and about all the other instructors will encourage more people to do phone consults and bootcamps.
Agreed MBP.
I would refrain from doing a CA bootcamp with instructors i didn't know. I have no idea who half the instructors are. Why would i invest that kind of money if i didn't respect and admire who was teaching. I would love to have a workshop with SHH, Johnny or Juggs.
The rest of the guys though, it's a much bigger risk. For all i know they could be at the same level i'm at.
davich
davich- put some trust in the instructors, have some faith that they can teach you. Just as we assume that each person we meet is interesting, some optimism is required for you to have the motivation and open mind necessary to really absorb what these guys teach. My experience with Johnny, Dan and Judson was phenominal and I've heard nothing but great things about the rest of the staff.
i agree with davich. i can understand where you are coming from turbine when you say put trust. but at the same time, 1600 dollars is 1600 dollars. i think learning more about the instructors and who they are would really help workshop business and phone consults.
before i met judson and christian, i didn't think they'd be any good cuz i knew nothing about them. but boy, did they frickin BLOW me away! they are amazing guys and i love them.
dan, pass that idea by the other instructors just to see if they'd be into writing some blog posts for the charisma arts website. or if theyd like to do more podcasts. podcasts are fun, but i really enjoyed the earlier ones the most because of how spontaneous and relaxed they were. i really got a good feel for johnny and juggler with those.
I wish, more than anything else, that Johnny and or Wayne would post at the forum....
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