"My Story Is Boring" Technique

I posted this on the Charisma Arts Alumni board in the beginning of april. I dragged it out because it was a fun interaction. So here it is

April 7th
So I had a great set tonight. Too bad i didn't collect information soon enough and spent too long with a girl i couldn't close. Oh well.. Great little trick came out of it.

So I came off as a very interesting person and instead of disqualifying i helped her to see herself as an interesting person to build her up to where she saw me. After she gets my story i ask about hers and she says "oh, my story is boring". I said to her ok back up. Do you enjoy your life and your story? She said of course. I then told her:

"Ok so then let me teach you the secret to being interesting. Every good storyteller doesn't just tell you about what happened they relate the emotions and feelings about the story. I gave her an example, story one with just events then story two with emotions and feelings."

So she goes on to very passionately tell me about her life and at the end i reward her and SOI her with: Not only are you a very sexy woman but i love how expressive you are.

I am going to have to use this anytime a girl says her story is boring (which a lot do). It conveys such high value that you know the secret to telling a good story and relating on an emotional level to appeal to an audience. Then you teach her how to do it and she gives you a ton to connect with and SOI with.

A couple of the girls in the set with her later said to me how cool she thought i was. Hopefully she has more single friends

Anytime you can teach a girl something about social dynamics I find it is such a huge attraction switch. Just Monday i taught BlueEyes bodylanguage and what it all meant. It opened up great kino opprotuniites and she ended up in my bed that night.