The tools set forth in the juggler method are very powerful. Each time i teach a seminar the more i realize just how underused these tools are used by most clients, myself included. I remember coming back from my seminar knowing how to relate, reward, SOI, disqualify, and kino. I would sparingly use an appropriate technique, and see attraction deepen. These techniques completely changed my interactions. However i still had a lot of problem interactions. I would still get blown out and not be able to keep people committed to the interaction.
Over time i got better but what really opened my eyes was starting to teach these seminars. I realized i was underutilizing these techniques. I should be relating and rewarding to EVERYTHING the person says. Little rewards for little commitments, big rewards for big commitments. Use emotional language everywhere and consistantly relate to what they are saying. As soon as i started doing all of these techniques with everything that i said, or at least a lot more often, the more effective my game became.
One example is disqualification. I saw Chad have some amazing results with women in a very short time. I asked him what he did and he just said " I just disqualified a lot". I got to thinking about that and realized i should do it a LOT more. I always felt like i should just disqualify if they put me on a pedestal with something. However the power of disqualification is in doing it with just about anything she says about you.
With HBBlondeEngineer I met after the vegas seminar i used this a lot. In fact i opened the set by disqualifying myself. She was talking to this guy and calling him a dirt bag for messaging
"I want you to cum".
I laughed as i overheard this and she pointed at me and said
"even he thinks it was dirtbag". I opened by disqualifying
"I agree completely, but honestly i'm a dirtbag too."
She instantly turned to me and started talking to me and forgot the guy was even there. We went on for a while, the whole time her putting up qualifications for me about my style or how much money i made and i just disqualified left and right. By the end of the night her best friend was literally pushing her to go home with me.
I used to only disqualify a little. Now like all the techniques i relish an opportunity to disqualify. I do it a lot along with reward and relate.
So if you are finding your game is stagnating a little at all, See just how many more opportunities there are to use all the techniques we have learned from Charisma Arts.
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Great post.
At first glance, there appears to be some incongruence between SOI's and statements that disqualify you. With HBBlondeEngineer, while disqualifying, were you also giving SOIs?
I could see how you could reward her with SOIs when she commits to the interaction, while DQ'ing when she puts up hoops, but I'm wondering if it's more complicated than that.
Thanks, awesome blog!
nope not more complicated than that. Thats it. SOI's come on her high points only and are a reward and show you are sexually interested in her. Disqualifications are on statments of your high points or her rewards to you. They make her feel more comfortable around you as well as show you are confident cause you are proud of your weaknesses.
hmmm..
They say to reward and SOI when someone commits and says something interesting...
What if they say something that THEY think is interesting, but you DONT. Reward but don't SOI?
Hmm.. Usually if someone thinks something is interesting i usually try to find out more about why if i don't find it interesting, then reward. The SOI is one thing i don't do a lot. I do it once to make the interaction sexual then i start just using sexual language and more sexual kino.. Rewarding i do whenever they tell me anything interesting.
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