So here is a pretty cool re-affirmation that this stuff works!!
Frogboiler and I went out sarging lastnight. It took us a little bit to get over our approach anxiety. A couple throw away sets and we were good. We went into my favorite bar and a friend of mine is hanging out. I go over and we small talk a bit and the subject that it is ladies night tonight comes up. I make a joke realizing i see his girlfriend over there that i was about to go hit on her. They actually encourage me so i go over thinking i'd just make a joke out of it and she challenges me for my best pick up.
I start with "Hi my name is [Warm Vibe] SHH" I ask her a stupid question to get things rolling like i usually do, "So what do you do?." She responds "a little of this, a little of that" I bust on her hard for the lame answer and she says she is a pilates teacher. She says "I teach people how to get in shape and firm up". I reward and connect. "That must be really amazing to bring people to a state of health and really improve their lives." She melts immediately and kino's me on the arm. "No seriously it is, i love it! Wow, you actually are good."
I love life... What better testimonial to Juggler Method then that! When you can open someone daring you for your best pickup line, and you melt them..
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How do you 'bust on her hard for giving a lame answer' about what she does?
I am really not that witty. If you have a good wit then busting on girls comes easy. However when i first started this it was this very thing that turned me off. The Deangelo stuff just made me feel like an asshole and i didn't want to be that way. However i think there has to be playful teasing in any interaction. It hits all the genetic dominance switches for women. A guy who is comfortable teasing, and being teased is an attraction switch. The AFC doesn't want to tease because he might cross the line accidentaly. A high value man values no interaction so highly that he cares if he slightly crosses the line. In fact it becomes fun to push that line and for her to have her line pushed.
In the above interaction i was not neccessarily witty when i busted on her but it made her laugh. She even commented on it "If you can make me laugh you got me.." Word for word i think it was like this:
SHH: So what do you do
Her: A little of this a little of that
SHH: Oh come on, thats a lame answer.
Her: Hahah ok, i'm a Pilates instructor, i help people get fit and toned.
If you are not a comedian like juggler forcing a funny comment won't work. Busting on a girl or playfully teasing her is not what you say but how you say it.
My intonation on the reply was one of a upbeat dissatisfaction. I was not punishing her, however i was making it clear (but playfully)i would not stand for an answer like that. Since the interaction was one of this playful challenging on her part looking to have me jump through her hoop to try to pick her up, that was where the frame changed to make her jump through my hoop first.
So I guess this is not a great example of busting on a girl. I think other examples i have all meld together so i'll make up one. hopefully its not too lame.
SHH: So what do you do?
Her: I'm a personal trainer
SHH: Cool, what's that like? (Vacum)
Her: Its fun, i get to help people achieve their fitness goals
SHH: That must be really rewarding (kino) to help people find their motivation and really make a lasting change in their lives for the better. (Emotionally connected)
Her: It really is!
SHH: [looking around as if someone is listening] So you ever get with one of those clients who there is no help for? You just kind of want to send them back to McDonalds and be done with it?
Her: Haha, [she thinks] ya ther was this one client who actually had a candy bar in his pocket the whole time and he would eat some of it every time i turned my back on him, like i wouldn't notice.
SHH: Haha, I know you would do the same if you could get away with it! (teasing her)
Her: No i wouldn't!
SHH: Oh sure, i can just see you in your sexy workout outfit with a supersize snickers sticking out of your back pocket bouncing up and down half melted while your on the treadmill.
Her: LOL
SHH: No, I really appreciate someone who is disciplined and takes care of their body [Qualifying statement].
Her: Me too, it is important whoever i am with takes care of themsselves and takes time to work out.
SHH: Your'e absolutely right, but I have to admit i have been off my workout program for two weeks. [Disqualification]
Her: I know, it's hard to get back to being motivated after you get out of your routine. Hey, if you ever want a workout buddy you should give me a call!
SHH: You know not only are you Sexy but you are a lot of fun. [SOI] We should go work out together soon. I really want to see that snickers bar you hide in your sexy workout outfit! [I hand her my phone to number close and then schedule a date workout date]
So hopefully that makes my style clear. I follow the juggler method pretty hardcore.. It just works so well.. Making sure you get all the elements in with kino at the appropriate places will lead to a good interaction.
One note on the above interaction. It was playful and light. Although i emotionally connected she will not remember a deep conversation. So i day 2 schedule and not just number close. I sometimes find women forget that strong connection in a couple days when the feeling fades. If i am busy (usually with other dates) she will be more and more likely to flake. However if i pin her down to a date then it could be a week later and she usually won't flake.
Cool, thanks man.
Yooo dude,
seriously, i am impressed with the quality of your posts, they are really informative and nice to read. It is fucking 6 am here, and i have been trying to go to bed for the last 2 hours, totally hooked by the blog (and this is not the 1st time in here).
I have Jugglers ebook, and reading this really helps give some new level of light/understanding to the whole thing.
I got so excited that i signed up for a phone consultation with you guys 2 days ago.
my best for u man, thanks for all :)
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