Myspace Game

I think i figured out how to make a successful myspace profile. First, start a blog. Be honest, blog often. Second get a good 1st pic. Go get it rated on Hot or Not if you don't know what is good. Then for the rest of your pics treat it like mystery's photo game. Show crazy pics of you doing fun stuff that is adventurous. I have myself on a mountain, done up in bodypaint for a music show, etc.. Then keep some guys in your top 8..

This month i've had two women open me from myspace. CompetitiveBlonde and HBCowboyBoots. Both have worked out well in Day 2 and beyond.

So here is the story of HBCowboyBoots; She emails me opening me with some boring thing and says she would like to ask me 5 questions. I wrote her back with this:

"The unknown man" I like the sound of that.. So 5 questions eh? thats a lot to ask! But it sounds like fun ;) Only if you go first and after you ask one i get to ask one and vice versa.. Hope your first question is a good one!

Oh and one restriction, no asking me about what i do or what i know.. Booooring... If you have 5 questions about [boring topic she opened me with] then that will just have to wait till you ask five other questions.

I'm looking forward to the first question.

SocialHitchHiker


The first was a pretty lame question about what senses would i give up if i was in a tragic accident. I disqualified my choices of Keeping Sight and Hearing since that is what everyone chooses. Then i pulled out that Touch is the MOST important sense since it is the most effective in connecting with other people. I went on about it and made it a very sensual thing that touched an emotional level. Boom, she was hooked.

Then i asked her a question like "What is the most dysfunctional moment of your life and how did it effect you and people around you" I dared her to be honest and had fun with the inner conflict she was going to have telling the truth to some stranger or making up a safe answer. Although it was a negative topic there is a strong attraction switch about creating comfort after someone tells you something they are a bit embarressed about. It worked great. I rewarded her on her next question by laying a big part of me on the line and keeping it on the same emotional level as she had used.

After I answered my 3rd question I made a coffee date with her. We met just yesterday and i emailed her my last 3 questions and had her email her last two and we continued the game in person. It was a great way to connect on a deep rapport level really quickly. I emotionally connected well. SOI'd lightly and she definetly wants to see me again.

So she is out of commission with a GallBladder Surgery this next week, so i'll let you know how it goes with her after that. She is a very intelligent confidant woman. Just the type i really want to meet. It should be fun.. Plus it is always an ego boost when it was my profile she chose over 150 other men on myspace..