Post Event Week 1

This is a copy of my post Juggler Seminar letter. Each week they email us and give us some post event excercises. This week was just go out and approach as much as possible. So here is my status report:


I have to admit i don't get a lot of time to do approaches since i live in a small town and work nights but i approached as much as i could and a hell of a lot more then i ever used to. Enough excuses here is what i did do:

Took Mon off to regroup after trip.

Tuesday it was my birthday and i approached tons of people i didn't know. Mostly light banter but was really working on vibe. I was in a great mood and really high energy. When i got to the bar i settled in and then started to approach every person in the bar bouncing from my group to others all night, merging a lot of them. I was having great results. It's my birthday is a great opener. From there i made sure to connect and either point out something really unique about that person or ask them something about themselves and connect with that. It was great. I had strangers who were buying me $10 cigars and offering me drinks.. One guy was with a really beautiful woman and i started connecting with her really well but made him so comfortable and like me so much when i saw him a week later he bought me a post-birthday drink and knew my name. the only unreceptive set the whole night didn't accept a hug from me but at that point i was really drunk.. A warm vibe is kind of screwed up when your drunk.

Wed I approached a few of the samples ladies in Costco and made some funny banter, My error was not finding something unique about them and didn't connect.

Thursday I went out and had some good approaches and mostly gamed some people i knew. My only bad set was i approached someone i knew and was very friendly, got the hook, then ejected prematurely. I had asked her out in the past and she was with her boyfriend. I should really of stayed to push and see how far i could go in making them comfortable with me. But i didn't.. no excuses.. I was secretly jealous since she turned me down a couple months ago.

Saturday i had a great time and pulled a friend out to wing with me. Our first set was a two set at the bar in a strong conversation. I waited a bit then since they weren't stopping i just interrupted with a really good vibe and introduced myself. I asked them after introductions "You guys look like you were in a very interesting conversation, what was the topic?" They were massage therapists. My wing came in and due to the mechanics i couldn't switch and talk to the one i really liked so i talked to her friend Katie. I connected on the massage therapy bit to how satisfying it is to discover what people need and be able to help them heal with what we do. I then told them to tell me a funny story about being a massage therapist. They both told good stories and i tried to connect on what they said but my wing went off on a story about turretts syndrome and kind of blew us out.. Oh well. I got some good reverse kino from the girl i was talking to and she was cool..

Later that night i talked with someone i knew already who i don't ever thing gave me the time of day before. This time i did the same, get her to commit with a question about herself, then connect. She was studying criminal forensics. So i connected with how amazing it felt to discover clues and solve a mystery that helps people much like what i do in an herbal consultation.. She got very receptive to me and i had some great IOI's.. The rest of the night i gamed friends. Although later a woman opened me with "You have really great style, you must be doing well". I immediately disqualified myself with "Nah, i won a bunch of money at poker and splurged on some nice clothes". Good interaction, although i didn't connect on any deep level with her.

Sunday i spent with this girl i'm seeing and we hung out most of that night. Mostly having a strong frame and not AFC'ing whenever she tested me got her really hot. I also played with some push pull and some sexual barriers. She would lean in to kiss me several times and i would be "not in front of your friends", i'd do that a few times then kiss her around the corner and walk away with a smile. She would test me sometimes when i'd get physical with her and try to withold from me so i'd always turn it around and turn my head away and act like "oh well" and she'd always grab me back.. I had her so turned on by the end of the night she basically was molesting me in front of her friends with me just trying to keep her from ripping my clothes off and not be rude to her friends (who i ran game on and now really like me as well and approve of me being with her).

My biggest struggle this week besides finding enough sets to approach was realizing i don't dig deep enough with most people to find really interesting things to connect on. Every set that hooks hard i get deeper and every set that is so so i didn't connect enough on a deep interesting thing about them or failed to search for that.

My two main attraction switches this week: Vibe and emotionally connect..

Good week.. My social interactions are on fire...