Thursday, January 19, 2006

Juggler's Seminar Report

How can you even put into words the lessons learned from talking to over 100 people in a single weekend. I am certainly not going to try to tell all about the approaches i did, so in the end i'm going to blather on a bit about the lessons learned and how it changed me.

The Juggler Method is very simple but extremely effective. We spent the first 7hours in seminar listening to lecture as well as doing excercises. Most of the information convered was directly from the ebook and simply solidified what i had already read. A better understanding of the flopsy (opprotunity opener) was gained as well as getting to hear some great stories that related these concepts. The excercises were what were the most helpful. I really began to understand what was holding me back from sucessful interactions. Seeing myself and the other guys have uncalibrated body language, bad language tonality, wrong eye contact, etc, really locked me into what i should be doing. Thats when i realized pick-up is all about VIBE... You could say ANYTHING, and she can say ANYTHING back and everything is how your vibe is and your response to her response.

Routines are a crutch.. Guys are too uncalibrated to understand how to create the right vibe so the whole point of a routine is to keep you in the set long enough to show a decent overall vibe instead of an instant vibe. A routine creates predictable responses so you can feel comfortable with approaching. Why routine monkey's think "Hi My name is ____" dosen't work is because they can't project the proper vibe. If you can project a VERY warm and friendly vibe and handle her response well then you can open any set..

The other part of the interaction goes like this:

Open with the right vibe (usually nothing more then Hi, I'm ______)
Deal with response well (most people respond well to friendly vibe so this is easy)

Ask Open ended question and vacum till she commits to the interaction
Reward by relating, creating an emotional connection
Disqualify if needed
Kino appropriately
Statment of Intent
Repeat escalating each time she commits more to the interaction

It is that easy. Always look to find out something you are genuinely interested in learning about her and reward her by emotionally connecting and relating. Then Escalate.

No funny games, routines, or cockiness needed.

The coolest part is this works on EVERYONE.. Guys, girls, Bosses, etc. Just slightly modify depending on your intent.

This weekend i was opening TONS of sets. There were so few that i got blown out of and usually we could look back and it all came back to a mistake in the sequence. I either didn't have the right vibe, failed to reward, or it had to do with things out of my control.

I came out of this weekend and left with a superpower. That superpower is VIBE. It is so powerful it melts the largest bitch shield, and disarms any AMOG Cockblock.

My social interactions since have been supercharged. I left getting exactly what i entered the seduction community for. How to be myself, and that to come off appealing to anyone. I feel comfortable now that i can meet any woman i want and have a good chance of her being attracted to me and wanting to get to know me. I'm no pickup artist but in the final sense of things i know now my life will be filled with incredible people, both women and men, and i will be able to connect and relate with them and a very real and meaningful way. From here out sarging is simply enriching my life with connection to other people. The more i do it the more enriched my life will become.

So off again i go sticking my thumb out and hitching a ride into more sets seeking true deep rapport.

1 comment:

Alfredo Vicente said...

It looks like you had a lot of fun!
I can't wait to get involved in one of those workshops, however right now I'm not in the USA. I hope to be in one in the future.

I recently bought wayne's ebook and archive and let me tell you that in my first week I've done what I had not been able to do last year: the very first 4 nights of outing I had a very exciting time, met many girls, even a few opened me, got 1 number and 1 mail and even one girl that was begging me to go where she was staying. Actually, my friends saw it, got motivated and I started a blog with them similar to yours. BTW, breat blog you have, I've learned a lot.

I have one question: in the Charisma Arts 1st podcast, at the end, they talk about the need of having a natural "game" but with a structure and mention 6 setps for this method, but they don't tell which are those steps. Could you help me with that? because I e-mailed them last week but I've not gotten any response.

Thanks for your input, keep your good vibe & blog. Hope to see you in a future workshop!