Wednesday, April 05, 2006

CellPhoneGirl in my Bed

So my date with CellPhoneGirl went great.. Good conversation, good kino. Although my SOI's were pretty lame. Escalation also was way too slow.. Regardless i got her back to my place into my room and into my bed. A grea makeout and fool around session. I could have full closed but i haven't had the talk with her yet that i'm seeing other people. That is really important to me before i sleep with a girl.

So she stayed the night.. Thats two nights, two women in my bed. Now if i could only get to the point where there is two women in my bed for two nights ;)


I'm really starting to realize it is really that first interaction you have that is so important. You emotionally connect enough then kino with any kind of SOI, your golden. You can screw up a lot in the process as long as you keep the interaction balanced (see Equal Interaction Exchange post). It will naturally lead to where you want it to go.

My goal is to learn to escalate sooner though.. I really have a lot of AFC thoughts in my head about escalation. I never have a problem getting the close in the long run, but i really should be able to close sooner. I guess i should work on my "dating other people talk". That is what stops me most of the time..

1 comment:

Gianni Kanlis (Author) said...

dude, just found your blog...
I also like the juggler method..i am more congruent with it...

Sarge on....