As i have been out and talking to women since my workshop there has been one element that has blown me away at how effective it is. Emotional Connection.
You: So what is something you are passionate about in your life?
[vacum]
Her:I really like to play soccer. We went to state this year!
You: Don't you love that feeling of training and going to practice, getting yourself in shape and then dominating the competition? All of that hard work paying off with that feeling of elation you get when you achieve your goals out on the field against worthy competition.
Her: You know this is the first really good conversation I have had in months with a guy. Other guys just seem to want to take me home and have a one night stand.
You: Oh don't get me wrong, i'm definetly taking you home tonight [SOI and Disqualification], {smile}, However i really prefer to have strong connections with people i meet. I really enjoy finding out about people and seeing what their passions are in life
This is almost verbaitum from a conversation with HBBuiltBlonde i had.
Every set i've opened or joined lately has gone to day 2 if i connect properly. The sets that go bad, it is always me failing to search for something i find interesting about her and connect emotionally to it.
This method is so simple:
Warm Vibe and Open
Vacum
Connect
SOI
Kino
Rinse and repeat.
The rest is all fine tuning and calibration.
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