Mixed Messages

This was last thursday i went out trying to hit one more sarging session before i hit boston.

First venue i get caught up with some people i know and get delayed approaching the set i picked out. Good social proofing better for my arsenal of excuses.. Finally i do approach though and check out the cigar case near them just for ease of mechanics. I turn around and talk to the bar tender a bit then realize i actualy knew one of the girls in the set. She had a baseball cap on so i hadn't recognized her from the rear. She had a friend so after introductions and slightly disarming the girl i knew i began gaming her. The Kino came almost instantly, mainly from her. Once it was established though i could return it easily. I built up some good attraction when she finally left. She told me where she worked and i left it at that. Felt weird trying to number close in front of the girl i knew..

Venue change to the V-club. Tonight was not my time for finding sets i didn't know for some reason. I run into a couple girls i already knew. Tried to run a bit of game on HBFriendsSister but got nowhere. At one point she was dancing with two dorks so i try to go save her. She looked like she needed it but it turns out she knew them and didn't want saving. Hmm.. Guess i need to write off being able to understand her body language.

I then run into another friend who i have a bit of history with. Too complicated to explain but the interaction was playing out like we knew eachother but we're obviously interested in eachother. I get stuck on the topic of my ex for way too long, her feeding it mostly (she used to be friends with her). Tons of mixed messages. We are talking and she sees friends, immediately goes and talks to them but always comes back quickly. I move to isolate and it works. Her friends come by and say they are going and she decides to stay with me talking. I try kino pinging and she never kino's me back. I should have run a kino game on her for compliance testing. I should read up on them and have one more readily available. Her previous IOI's were strong but then she sat talking to me with her legs and arms crossed and nevere opening up her body language. I try closing off my body language first waiting to open on one of her high points. When that happens i open my BL to her and still no change. Odd.. So in the end she says goodnight and i write it off as me AFC'ing too much and not keeping the interaction fun and light.

Overall it was an ok night. Got to play with kino and post opening interaction so it was fun..